Ibiza Teacher and Actress Nuria Santos Finds a Spark on First Dates and Defends the Island's Real Side

09 de September de 2026

Ibiza has made another appearance on the Spanish dating programme First Dates, this time through Nuria Santos, a 47-year-old local teacher and actress who travelled to the show hoping to find love.

The Ibiza-born participant quickly used her appearance to challenge one of the island's most persistent stereotypes. Rather than the Ibiza of nonstop parties and nightlife, Santos highlighted the everyday reality of people who actually live on the island.

Her date, Roberto, a 53-year-old Italian hairdresser who has lived in Barcelona for more than 20 years, initially seemed an uncertain match. But as the evening progressed, the pair discovered a surprising number of shared interests and ended the programme agreeing to see each other again.

Nuria Santos brings the real Ibiza to television

Before the dinner had even properly begun, Santos made one thing clear: Ibiza is also a place where people simply live normal lives.

The teacher and actress explained that she often encounters outsiders who associate the island almost exclusively with nightlife. Her response is that people who live in Ibiza have ordinary daily lives and are not constantly partying.

It was a small moment during the programme, but one that resonated beyond the dating story itself.

Santos effectively used her appearance to present a different image of the island, one centred on residents rather than tourists, clubs and summer excess.

A teacher, actress and supporter of local cinema

Santos is known on Ibiza not only for her work as an early-years teacher but also for her involvement in the island's cultural scene.

She works as a theatre and short-film actress and is also co-director of the Ixtar Curts short-film festival, which forms part of the Festes de Sant Bartomeu programme in Sant Antoni.

Her appearance on First Dates therefore came from someone already active in several sides of Ibiza's community and cultural life.

That background made her comments about the island particularly personal. She was not simply defending Ibiza as a holiday destination, but describing it as her home.

Her date was Roberto, a romantic Italian hairdresser

The man matched with Santos was Roberto, a 53-year-old Italian-born hairdresser living in Barcelona.

He presented himself as romantic, attentive and passionate about Italian food, including pasta, limoncello and lambrusco.

There was one unusual detail in his story: Roberto had already appeared on First Dates previously, but his earlier date had decided not to sit down for dinner with him.

His meeting with Santos unfolded very differently.

Despite some initial doubts, the two gradually became more comfortable with one another as they talked about their lives and interests.

First impressions were not exactly perfect

Santos admitted that Roberto was not necessarily the type of man she would normally notice when walking down the street.

That could have become a problem, especially in a programme where contestants often make quick judgments based on first impressions.

Instead, conversation changed the dynamic.

As the evening continued, Santos and Roberto found common ground and became increasingly relaxed around one another.

The initial uncertainty gradually gave way to curiosity, affection and a clear sense that there could be something worth exploring.

Yoga, sport and spirituality create a connection

One of the strongest points of connection between the two was their shared interest in sport and spirituality.

Those conversations helped move the date beyond superficial small talk and allowed Santos to talk about one of her more meaningful recent experiences.

She told Roberto about completing the Camino de Santiago last year, walking 112 kilometres from Sarria to Santiago entirely on her own.

The experience clearly impressed him, with Roberto praising the strength he saw in her decision to make the journey alone.

The Camino de Santiago becomes a highlight of the date

For Santos, the Camino was not simply a travel story.

Walking alone from Sarria to Santiago gave her an opportunity to talk about personal strength and independence, and it became one of the moments when Roberto appeared most impressed by her character.

The conversation helped establish an emotional connection that had not necessarily been obvious when the pair first met.

Rather than focusing purely on attraction, the date increasingly centred on personality, life experiences and shared values.

Roberto gives Santos an emotional compliment

As the evening progressed, Roberto became increasingly complimentary towards Santos.

He told her that she deserved good things and encouraged her to value herself more.

According to the programme's account, the comments had a particularly emotional impact on Santos.

It was another sign that the relationship had moved well beyond the cautious first moments of the date.

A surprising amount of chemistry

By the end of the dinner, both participants were giving much more positive signals.

Santos said she had enjoyed herself and found the conversation enriching.

Roberto continued to praise her, and the pair appeared noticeably more comfortable than they had been at the beginning of the evening.

The contrast between their first impressions and the final atmosphere of the date was one of the main reasons the encounter stood out.

Both agree to a second date

The final test on First Dates is whether the two singles want to meet again.

In this case, the answer from both sides was yes.

Santos said there had been chemistry and important points of connection between them.

Roberto was equally positive, making it clear that he wanted the story to continue.

That does not necessarily mean a long-term relationship will follow, but it means the programme's central objective was achieved: two people who were initially unsure about one another left with enough of a connection to want another meeting.

An Ibiza story beyond the party image

Santos' appearance is also interesting because it reflects another side of Ibiza that is frequently overshadowed by the island's international nightlife reputation.

Millions of people know Ibiza through beaches, clubs, DJs and summer tourism.

But residents experience another version of the island, one involving schools, theatre, cinema, local festivals, sport, community events and ordinary family life.

Santos brought that everyday perspective directly into a national television programme.

Her message was simple: Ibiza is not only a place people visit to party. It is also a place where people live, work, create and build relationships.

A timely appearance during Ibiza's September cultural season

Santos' appearance also comes during a particularly active period for Ibiza's cultural calendar.

The island continues hosting festivals, film events, live performances and community celebrations in September, demonstrating the breadth of activity beyond the peak clubbing season.

Her involvement with Ixtar Curts makes her particularly connected to that side of Ibiza's identity.

Her television appearance therefore offers an unusual crossover between national entertainment television and the island's local cultural scene.

The date's biggest success may be the conversation

While the possible romance between Santos and Roberto is the obvious headline, the wider story may be the conversation about Ibiza itself.

Santos did not reject the island's party reputation, but she challenged the idea that it represents the complete reality of life there.

That distinction matters for an island where tourism and local life exist side by side.

For many residents, Ibiza is a home first and a global nightlife brand second.

On First Dates, Santos managed to communicate that message while also finding a potential romantic connection.

From cautious beginning to promising ending

The date began with uncertainty.

Santos admitted that Roberto was not the obvious person she might normally choose, while Roberto arrived carrying the baggage of a previous unsuccessful First Dates appearance.

Yet the evening developed in an unexpectedly positive direction.

Shared interests, deeper conversation and personal stories gradually overcame those initial doubts.

By the end, both were willing to take the next step.

Ibiza gets its moment in the spotlight

For the island, the appearance offers a light-hearted piece of national exposure with a distinctly local message.

Nuria Santos presented herself not simply as an Ibiza resident but as a teacher, actress and cultural participant who wanted viewers to understand that the island has an everyday life of its own.

And, in the process, she may also have found a promising new relationship.

Whether the connection with Roberto develops further remains to be seen, but for one evening, the Ibiza of ordinary life, culture and human connection took centre stage on First Dates.

Key Facts

  • Participant: Nuria Santos

  • Age: 47

  • From: Ibiza

  • Profession: Early-years teacher

  • Other work: Theatre and short-film actress

  • Cultural role: Co-director of the Ixtar Curts short-film festival

  • Programme: First Dates

  • Date: Roberto, 53

  • Roberto's background: Italian-born hairdresser living in Barcelona for more than 20 years

  • Shared interests: Sport and spirituality

  • Camino de Santiago: Santos walked 112 kilometres from Sarria to Santiago alone in 2025

  • Outcome: Both agreed to go on a second date

  • Main Ibiza message: Santos highlighted the island's everyday resident life beyond its party reputation

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